"And it came to pass that we lived after the manner of happiness." 2 Nephi 5:27

"And it came to pass that we lived after the manner of happiness." 2 Nephi 5:27

Friday, May 24, 2013

Big Daddy Visits Again

When I let the kids know that Big Daddy was going to be coming for another visit this was their response...
Yes, one of just pure excitement! 
Big Daddy was coming to see Aunt Whitney graduate with her Master's degree in Counseling. Yay Whitney!! 
We were glad to see Big Daddy again so soon. Creighton has learned that, "Big Daddy lives far away and flies on a plane to his house."
Creighton and Big Daddy spent some time outside with the famous Skycopter Big Daddy got him for his birthday and then attempted some baseball. We also went to the park but Creighton was done with that once he saw some kids having a McDonald's picnic. He was able to convince his Big Daddy to buy him some chicken nuggets, french fries and chocolate milk and then he impressed him by eating his whole meal.
But sometimes we had to remind Big Daddy that Creighton just turned 3. Big Daddy was convinced Creighton should know how to put on his own britches and his own shoes, but 3 days just wasn't long enough for Big Daddy to teach Creighton to do all the things Big Daddy thought he should know how to do. But Creighton was able to show him what a good reader and counter he is. He read Big Daddy some books and was able to convince Big Daddy to read him a few too.
We also took Big Daddy to one of our favorite ice cream places, Reed's Dairy! Big Daddy also visited our favorite Mexican Restaurant, El Herradero, twice in the same day! Where Creighton continued to impress with his hot-sauce eating skills and his mom was not too happy...
Macey Jo knows how much Big Daddy likes bright colors so she pulled out all her brightest outfits for him. She had a fun time reminding Big Daddy what little girls are like and we even let him practice making a few bottles. He thought he would try a little "experiment" with the formula and water and it was proven that women make better mommys than engineers do. 
All in all we had a fun time with our Big Daddy in the few days that we had to spend with him. Hopefully we will get to see him again soon. But I don't know, Arkansas sure is a long way from Idaho!

Saturday, May 4, 2013

TGIS

Thank Goodness It's Saturday!!
Because that means tomorrow is Sunday! And Mr. Creighton Eli has been begging every day to go to church and see his friends. Who are his friends? Well, when I first asked him I was surprised at his response. His friends are, "Sparks, Gibby, Perkins, Sparks." (That is: Sister Sparks, Sister Gibby and Sister Perkins. I think he adds in Sister Sparks a second time because she is his favorite!)
He usually asks if we are going to church when I do his hair. In fact, he got a haircut on Thursday and when the stylist asked if she should put gel in it he said, "Am I going to church?" Then the stylist asked him about church and he preceded to tell her about his friends (or teachers). 
 I am grateful that he loves going to church so much and that he looks forward to it. Hopefully that will always be the case. I am grateful for his teacher friends that help to reinforce what he is learning at home. Often he says something that we aren't sure we have taught him so we decide he must have learned it in nursery class. 
For the most part, Creighton really loves to learn about the gospel of Jesus Christ. He loves to talk about prophets. Cason printed out a picture of all 16 latter-day prophets last week for Family Home Evening. I heard Creighton the other day playing with it. He said, "Is that one Joseph Smith? No. Is that one Joseph Smith? No." And of course he loves the story of the prophet Noah because we spend a lot of time talking about all of the animals. 
Creighton likes to sing songs from church, but only on his terms. When he is not in the mood for singing- watch out. And he won't sing a song that he doesn't want to. But he knows the words to a lot of songs and can really belt it out when he wants to. However, he never sings "Jesus Wants Me For a Sunbeam" because he is much too busy dancing. If you know that song, than you know that the "beam" part of the song is exciting. Creighton takes the opportunity during the "beam" part to roll around on the floor, flail his legs, attempt somersaults and a myriad of other 3 year old boy crazyness... 
But he does not like to read scriptures and say prayers at night. In fact, it usually becomes a war zone with tears on his part or mommy's and daddy usually turning into the bad guy. I think perhaps it is because to him it symbolizes the dreaded BED TIME. In fact sometimes I skip it because I don't want to ruin the peace and happiness we are feeling at that time. But I know that being consistent in the most important thing. So I am trying to make sure it gets done every single night.
 Miss Macey Jo also loves church. She takes the opportunity to sleep during the first half and then is usually pretty calm during the rest of it. For the most part she is such a calm and content baby. But she is like her mom- if she is hungry or tired you better watch out! She has a set of lungs and will use them! Even when you make the bottle and bring it to her, she won't take it for a while and will continue to scream until it turns into a whimper as though to say, "You took so long... what's the matter? Didn't you hear me? I was starving... I am not very happy with you right now..." And when she is tired there is a certain way she likes to be put to sleep and to be honest, mommy does it best!! 
 But once she is asleep it can be difficult to keep her asleep. Part of it has to do with a very loud 3 year old boy who shall remain un-named. Another reason is because she likes to be VERY comfortable. She sleeps best in mommy and daddy's bed propped with lots of pillows and blankets. I blame daddy for discovering this. In fact, to make both of them happy, daddy will make her a large pallet on the floor next to the computer with several blankets and pillows while he does his homework. That way she sleeps comfortably while he works on school work. Another reason she doesn't nap well during the day is because she is such an AWESOME sleeper at night! She sleeps for about 8 hours straight, wakes up to eat, then is down for about another 4 hours. So I can see why she doesn't want to sleep for several hours at a time during the day. When I told that to one woman she said, "Are you breastfeeding?" I said, "No." She said, "Well, that's why she sleeps through the night!" (This woman is very pro-breastfeeding.) Well, if a non-breastfeeding baby sleeps that well at night I think I'll keep doing what I'm doing. If she was trying to convince me otherwise it did not work!
"I want my daddy!" When Cason is at work I hear this several times throughout the day. Whenever Creighton gets in trouble for spitting, pooping in his underwear, spilling his drink (for the 4th time that day) or whatever he screams this phrase. (His dad says he yells, "I want my mommy!" When I'm the one gone and at work.) I tell Creighton, "I want you to have your daddy too." I only wish Cason could be there to help! Right now with Cason's schedule it's feast or famine! Sometimes he works 4 12 hour shifts in a row and other times he has 4 days off straight. Those 4 days off really spoil us and it is hard for dad to go back to work. Cason has been back to graveyards for the last month and those really stink at 12 hour shifts. We are also glad it is Saturday because Daddy has the next 3 days off!
 Creighton and Macey Jo are also in love with their Grandpa Dennis. Miss Macey Jo just loves to spend time over there. And grandpa can make her giggle like no one else. Her giggle is so cute. Grandma says it is a deep belly laugh. I call it a ventriloquist laugh because she makes such a loud sound without hardly any facial expression at all. One reason the kids like grandma and grandpa's is because they have all kinds of fun toys. Creighton really likes the lawn mower toy (and watching Disney now that we don't have cable) and sister is finally big enough for the walker chair!
She loves this chair so so so much! I decided we needed one for our house and searched for one on amazon. But decided that I wouldn't get one and it could just be a special treat for when we go to grandma and grandpa's!
Sister has a lot of things on her "favorites" list. Which is great! Topping the list is the bathtub. I am sure she could be content to live in the tub. I am grateful I invested in a "whale bathtub" for this cutie. I didn't have it for Creighton. She is a fish like her brother and splishes and splashes and just can't get enough. She just loves water in general. When we go swimming at Grandma Chambers' house she floats in the semi-hot tub and is just as content as can be. And no one looks cuter in a swim suit than this sweetie!
A true girl, she also loves to talk! I don't remember Creighton babbling so much so young! I imagine words will come soon enough. Too soon probably! This beauty will be 4 months tomorrow. Cason thinks the time has just flown by. I actually don't agree though. I really do feel like it has been 4 months. I think the reason it could possibly feel like the time has gone faster than with Creighton is I think she is doing things quicker and is bigger than Creighton was at this age.
Another one of Macey Jo's favorite people is her big brother. She just loves to stare at him and watch what he is doing, And I'll admit- he is very entertaining! She can certainly learn a lot from him. In fact she loves to watch cartoons with him. Truth be known, of course it's just because she loves to snuggle next to her big brother.  It's really the only time he sits still long enough to hold onto her. 
He is still such a great helper. He hasn't gotten jealous of her. Sometimes when we are getting out of the car at the grocery store he asks me to hold him and I tell him I can't because I am holding sister. He seems to understand and doesn't get too upset. He also likes to help her remember not to suck her thumb. When Creighton was at his 3 year old check up Dr. J told Creighton he needed to stop sucking his thumb. Mommy later told Creighton that was because it would hurt his teeth. I am glad Dr. J said something because it has been easier to get Creighton to stop now when we say, "Remember what the doctor said?" So whenever Creighton sees sissy with her hands near her mouth he says, "Sister! Doctor says no sucking your thumb!" Luckily, sister is still enjoying her pacifier and not her fingers though.
I just have to brag about my puzzle master!! He got some Doc McStuffins puzzles and turned into a pro. Then from the Easter Bunny he got Toy Story and Cars puzzles. They are 24 pieces and he can usually do it in 2-3 minutes. And he just loves them. He does them all on his own just sitting in his room and if I ask him what he wants to do he says, "Do puzzles!" But he is starting to get a little bored with them I think... I need to find some larger puzzles. I think about 36-48 pieces but with pieces the same size. No down-grading on the piece size for now. He also loves to read and is taking advantage of his new "reading-nook" since we re-arranged his room.

I wish Creighton was as interested in using the big boy potty as he was in doing puzzles, reading, going to grandpa's house, watching cartoons, eating cinnamon rolls, playing with the dog, etc. Pretty much it is at the very, very bottom of his list of favorite things to do. (In fact, he would probably rather says prayers and read scriptures at night than use the big boy potty). Yes, we are still struggling with potty training. For a while I thought he had totally gotten the hang of it... silly me. Yesterday he had 2 1/2 accidents and I had to throw 1 pair of underwear away. He has had so many BAD accidents I have had to get out the carpet cleaner. So many extra loads of laundry. And not just pants and underwear... Someone told me "there is life after potty training". Well, I don't know if I'll even get to the "after potty training." So many people have tried to tell me "how-to potty train your child in 3 days!" Yeah right. They are welcome to take my child home for 3 days and try it on him. I swear I have tried it all and then some. I hope this is the hardest thing he puts me through and the teenage years are a breeze.  I do have high hopes for Miss Jo. She HATES to have a wet diaper. Perhaps this means good things for the future...
All this just to say... Thank goodness it's Saturday! 

Friday, April 5, 2013

Two Is Better Than One

I would have to say that having two children is much better than having one! As I said in a previous post, the heart has an amazing capacity for love and it is a wonderful thing!! However, two children is NOT better than one in the case of picture-taking...
To take a picture of both of my children together it is best if Creighton is laying in bed watching cartoons and if Miss Jo has just woken from a long nap, been fed, and a fresh diaper placed on her bum.
I have been wanting some professional photos taken of the kiddos. My couch is not the cutest backdrop. I contacted my photographer and since the weather was GORGEOUS today we decided to head out to take some spring photos outdoors. 
I have had some great experiences taking pictures of Creighton and some not so great experiences. Today was a not so great experience with him and the little lady was not having it either. Ugh... to say the least it was miserable. And my poor photographer is 36 weeks pregnant as well. After 2 hours we gave up. I just keep thinking, "There has to be AT LEAST 1 good one!!"

It could have possibly been my fault. I was probably sending out negative vibes. I had worries about the pictures from the beginning. Easter Sunday there were many attempts made to get the kids together for a Easter Sunday photo in their Easter-best! This is all we were able to achieve:
Oh well. I guess that is what we can start to expect for family pictures from here on out.
 
Taking pictures of the kids really is fun though. I love to take pictures of whatever we have going on so that we can remember! I know that many years from now, I will even enjoy looking at "poor" pictures because they will bring back memories. 
This Easter...
 We colored lots of eggs. But even more fun, we put stickers on them!
 The Easter Bunny visited our family as well.
It sure was exciting!
Easter was Papa's birthday, so the next day a whole lot of family got together to celebrate!
Sometimes I bribe my children to smile big with King Size candy bars!
Unfortunately, I couldn't figure out anything to make these two cooperate today for our professional photos. Just another thing that I am going to have to learn to understand and be okay with!
Overall, two is better than one.

MacGyver Bowholder

A few days ago our family got a new dishwasher. After installing the new one, Cason was throwing out the packing material. I yelled, "Wait! What is that?" And he showed me something that looked like a frame. It was made of cardboard and wood. I asked him to keep it. He thought I was nuts. 
Here it is:
I had a vision for a bowholder. It turned out GREAT!! 
It matches Macey Jo's room beautifully!
In fact, she loved it so much, we were able to capture a smile on camera for the first time the night we hung it up!
One of the wonderful things about having a husband is always impressing him. He still can't believe what I made from the dishwasher packing material! (Hence the nickname I gave it, "the MACGYVER bowholder") He says, "I never would have thought of that!" Well, of course not! It is my job to do that kind of crafty-thinking. 
As I was making it he loved joking about how big it was and that it STILL wouldn't be big enough to hold all of her bows.
Oh no! There is still PLENTY of room for more bows. And just in case you didn't know... a girl can NEVER have too many bows!

Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Mother of Two

Everyone who told me that the change from one child to two was going to be difficult... was right! 
However, the first few weeks weren't difficult at all. That is because Cason had 4 weeks off of work and mostly online classes. We spent a lot of time together as a family and if we took the kids anywhere we were always together. It was so nice to always have an extra pair of hands and 2 kids seemed not a lot different than one...
 Oh boy. When daddy went back to work we (me and occasionally a child) had a few meltdowns. Cason has started 12 hour shifts at the prison, 10 am-10 pm, and it is sometimes rough for this mommy of two. One day I texted my cousin whose husband was across the country in Louisiana working. He only comes home once a month for a few days. I said, "How do you do this by yourself? I feel like I am turning into a crazy woman!!" (she has three kids) She assured me she definitely has had her crazy moments. But I guess you also do what you have to do to take care of and provide for your family. Even if sometimes it is overwhelming, exhausting, frustrating and sometimes just no fun. But who am I to complain? It's only 4 days a week for me...
One day I think that I really scared Cason. I called up to the prison just sobbing. He was very concerned. I just needed to cry and have him listen and complain about what a rough day it had been. Then I felt much better.
Another day I called my mom and said, "Anyone who has more than two children must be insane and should be committed to the crazy hospital!"
I didn't go anywhere with both kids for several weeks except for to my mom's house. But the last few weeks we have been extremely adventurous and made several errands around town at once and even with a potty-training boy in tow! In fact just the other day we braved a snow storm to run to the grocery store for non-essentials. This momma is feeling extremely proud of herself. 
There were some difficult days with two kids. I won't share too many of my meltdowns, I get embarrassed easily... But I feel like I am now "getting the hang of it".

I am so blessed to have a great husband who does take a very active role when he is home. He always gets up at night-time with Macey Jo when I have to go to work the next day. (But she doesn't get up much at night anymore... hooray!!) He loves his baby girl and goes running when he hears her fuss. He loves to talk to her and try to make her giggle.
He also likes it very much when she makes funny faces!
Our little lady had her 2 month checkup yesterday and she is growing great! We feel so blessed to have a healthy little girl.
 She weighs just a bit over 11 lbs and is 23 1/2 inches. She wears mostly 3 month clothes and looks beautiful in everything! She doesn't like the bows mommy puts on her very much, she is always pulling them down over her eyes! But that doesn't stop mommy. Her hair is growing fast and is getting so thick in the back you can hardly see her scalp. I know ponytails are in our future soon!! She also has the most beautiful, thick, long eyelashes. I love to adore them as she sleeps. I have some eyelash-envy.
 She is starting to coo and smile and giggle. It doesn't take much for a smile to appear on her face. She loves to be talked to and loves to talk back. She loves to sit upright and observe what is going on. Her favorite place is still the fish swing. When in doubt what to do for a fussy Macey Jo... put her in the swing! But she hardly ever fusses. Unfortunately she did go through "night-time fussiness" for a few weeks in that transition time when daddy went back to work. But now she is over it. Yay! Listening to too much crying is exhausting and frustrating.
 Miss Jo LOVES to take a bath. She didn't like riding in the car for a long time. But we found that if we don't put the carrier cover on and bring back the canopy she really enjoys it. She just likes to watch her brother while we are driving. Today she went swimming for the first time. Unfortunately I couldn't be there, but I hear she really enjoyed it!
Even though the transition has had its hard times, of course I wouldn't change it for anything. Having these two kiddos is so much fun! When you have just one, it is hard to imagine loving another as much as you do the first. But the heart has an amazing capacity for love!!

 Mr. Creighton also had a 3 year checkup yesterday and is doing as well as his sister. Unfortunately he wasn't too happy to be there because just the night before he had been in the ER. So he didn't want to be "poked" again. He keeps saying, "Doctor poked me!" He bonked his head at church, then threw up, and didn't stop... He was getting dehydrated and had a high fever. So Cason took him in Sunday night around midnight and they fixed him up good and the next day he was doing very well.
Creighton has been begging for a picnic so we did have one in the living room the other day. He wanted "a picnic with hot dogs". Creighton just can't wait for the nice weather. He always wants to go outside for walks, to blow bubbles, to play with Callie (our dog), to jump on Grandma and Grandpa's trampoline and to play baseball. Soon enough though! 
I wanted to start a tradition where every year on Creighton's birthday I ask him the same questions and see how the answers change. Like a birthday interview. Well, I think 3 years old was too young to start with Creighton. Perhaps I will try again next year. He's not big into being "formal" and being calm enough for a few minutes to answer my questions is too much to ask of him. Here is a little bit of what I was able to get out of him...
Me: Creighton, what is your favorite food?
Him: Chips! Please can I have some chips? A cookie? Some candy? Puh-lease!!!
Me: Creighton, where is your favorite place to go?
Him: Can I go to Grandma and Grandpa's?
Me: No.
Him: To the park?
Me: No.
Him: Play with Papa and Sam?
Me: No.
Him: Puh-lease go to Grandma and Grandpa's?
His daddy has been teaching Creighton to say his name with his middle name included. Tonight Cason said, "Why do you have to be so destructive? Is your name Creighton Destruct-o?" Creighton, "No!! I am Creighton Eli!!" We were also making cookies tonight and Creighton was being very bossy to me. Cason said to him, "Can you say, I'm a back seat driver?" Creighton said, "I'm a back-seat driver named Creighton Eli!"
He is learning so much and recently discovered puzzles. He is so great at doing the 24 piece puzzles. His favorite ones are Doc McStuffins! He has also discovered signs. As we drive he says, "There is a sign! There is a sign! A sign in the grass!  A sign in the road! There is a sign!" Oh boy... I have discovered with Creighton in the car that there are signs everywhere!!
 As I mentioned earlier, Creighton is potty-training. This is like round 9. So far though things are really going great with #1 in the potty. Not with #2 unfortunately...
I sometimes still can't believe I am a mother of two! And to say "the kids" still feels a little strange. We have a lot of fun with these two... and a lot of crazy times... But boy is it great!